A big criterion for the achievement of a goal of yours is to trust the other side otherwise you will not succeed by yourself. If you think that the person you are in relationship with tells the truth, it is hight time you stopped functioning autonomously and you saw life through common plans and actions. If your relationship is in crisis, sex may revive it because it will be either the basis on which to lay new foundations or the emergency exit to leave for good. On the professional level, the truth is you are mostly interested in feeling financially secure more than anything else. It is very likely that you look at an offer which pays very well instead of remaining in a situation which is based on comfort of time and force of habit.
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